So just how to attract money? I read the book “The Secret”. The movie was very intriguing, and so were all the articles I read. It’s based on the laws of attraction.
Yet, if you’re like many people, you’ve tried doing visualizations and affirmations with very limited success.
It can be very frustrating. It wasn’t until recently when I joined a group on facebook around this concept that I truly understood how to use the information I read.
I will confess, I am still learning how to attract money and am a baby at this. I have experienced some pretty amazing things that I call miracles in my life lately. More in the last 6 months than I have experienced in a life time. My income recently tripled. 4 months ago I didn’t even have a home. I lived with a friend and my daughter and I had to live apart.
It was a painful time for me and a struggle to say the least. I have since turned it around. I can attract money. I can attract love. I am living proof.
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Today I have my own place and my daughter and I are reunited. My bills are paid. None of this was in my life 8 months or so ago. I was grasping at straws, spinning my wheels. How did I get it? I changed my thoughts. I changed the words I used to express my thoughts and my world changed. The most exciting thing of all is that I know it will continue to change. Yes you can manifest love. Yes you can manifest wealth.
When I first started exploring this attracting money thing I had this huge block. I was hoarding my money. I didn’t feel I had any money so I held onto every penny for dear life. The message I was sending the Universe was that I don’t have enough. The law of attraction gives back to you what you put out. I was just attracting more lack to me by holding onto my money for dear life.
Belief is a big part of attracting things like money or love into your life. You have to believe it and you have to act as if you already have it. Do you skimp and pinch pennies when you go to the store? If so, you aren’t activating the keys to attracting money and abundance into your life. It’s all already there, you just have to tap into it.
I have taken all this to new levels and have discovered so many tools that assist me in my life. I want to share them here. You see you can visualize all you want to attract money or attract love, but for fast results, you really need back up. In other words you must take action.
How Can you just attract money? I think you can. It sure has worked for me, but you must know how. It is said that our thoughts create our world. I believe this. If you are at all familiar with the law of attraction then you know what I am talking about.
Your thoughts though are not the only thing you have to change. Your current beliefs as well as your actions may be keeping you from attracting money into your life. Have you listened to what people have been telling you all your life and have they become a part of your belief system.
Things like you have to work hard for your money or a penny saved is a penny earned, stuff like this. This things become a part of who we are and until you work to change these beliefs, you will not attract money. It will continue to avoid you.
Guilt is also a huge factor in what may be keeping money from you. Let me explain. I used to feel guilty for spending money. If I went shopping, I would put something in my cart and stroll through the store with it.
In the meantime, my limited belief system would play tricks in my head. It would tell me I can’t afford it, I need other things more. In other words I was thinking I did not have enough. I would often put the object back. As long as you operate from a place of “not enough”, you will never feel how to attract money into your life.
How to attract money also has a lot to do with acting as if you already have it. If you are familiar with the laws of attraction, you probably know about the importance of visualization. You have to visualize the life that you desire in order for it to manifest.
You also have to act as if you already have that life as in believing that it has already manifested. This is so much easier said that done for many. The reason it is not that easy is all of those false beliefs you have in your mind that have been programmed into you throughout your life by family, friends and society in general.
If you want to manifest money, it starts with an intention. Many do this and stop here. An example. You say to the Universe, “I intend to attract enough money to buy a car, or go on vacation or whatever your intention is. This is the first step.
Then you visualize what if feels like to already have it. That is the second step and here is where so many just stop and wonder why they aren’t getting the intentions that they set forth.
The acting as if you already have it is the part that really stumps a lot of people. If you are scrimping, cutting coupons, saving your every dime, you certainly aren’t acting as if you already have it. You are operating in a scarcity mindset. So therefore although the Universe heard you, did it actually believe you?
If you want more money to flow to you, opening your clinched fist is the first place to start. Take the action, then believe it is already on it’s way to you. Don’t wait for the miracle and then say, I believe. Also go to the dealership, pick out the car you want and take it for a test drive.
If you want to know how to attract money you have to break free from limiting beliefs that unknown to you, hold you in chains.. This is where exploring your belief system comes in.
You see we do have the power to change our entire world by tapping into and transforming the beliefs in our subconscious mind. Beliefs are not something we are born with. They are something that we are taught by our parents and society. Don’t believe me?
Think about this. What if you were born, yes you the same you, in a different country with a different culture. Your beliefs would be completely different than what they are now. We were born with a clean slate, but society and other factors have added layers to us that keep us in chains and in oblivion to our own power.
What Are Limited Beliefs?
In the money department, we have limited beliefs. We often say we can’t afford this or that. We don’t feel if we have enough money to go around. Not too long ago I was doing my weekly shopping. I get the basics at the dollar store. I don’t have a dishwasher and there was a $10.00 dish drain there. Bright red and it would actually match my other kitchen things. I didn’t buy it.
I was trying to stay under $50.00 bucks and though that would probably push me up to close to $60 or $70 bucks. I was telling myself I didn’t have enough. I was reinforcing my limited beliefs with my actions. This actually hurts me. The Universe keeps hearing my cries that I don’t have enough and continues to deliver not enough. I was living a scarcity mentality!
So the next week, funds were short, but I bought the little red dish drain anyway. I let go of the notion that I didn’t have enough, and I let go of the notion that 10 bucks would make or break me. This seemed to be a turning point for me. A couple days later I got a check in the mail from a website that I had completely forgotten about.
I now had more than enough. I even took off for the beach. I spent all of my money at the beach, again reprogramming my belief that there wasn’t enough.
When I first got to the beach I noticed I was feeling guilt. Guilt for spending the money when I needed so many other things. Instead of giving into that guilt, I examined it closely. It was in fact my belief system that had me feeling guilt.
I worked through it with some tapping from my ocean front balcony and let it go. I told myself that I did have enough money to enjoy a weekend at the beach with my lover. Instead of buying into we are going to be broke when we get back, I changed my thoughts. There will be an abundance when I get back. Sure enough, when I returned my online business had earned over $700 bucks. These things never happened to me before. I swear it. Holistic belief reprogramming is turning my life around.
Many have limiting beliefs about love as well. All of the good ones are taken. I have gained weight, no one will like me. All men are liars. All women are flakes. I am destined to be alone. I don’t have time for a love life. It never works out, what’s the point? Do any of these sound familiar? The list goes on and on. These are limited beliefs that are keeping you from attracting love.
I have this one covered. I love men. I am not very limited in my love beliefs. Perhaps it’s easier for me also because of my past. I haven’t struggled so much here as I have in money. There are many though that have been deeply hurt in love and it’s not so simple to not let this move forward into their lives. Healing is needed. Love is not a scarce resource, I promise.
Releasing our limited beliefs to gain freedom and control in our lives is a process. It does take time and commitment. I don’t think you can just wake up one day and they are gone. but there are ways to escalate their release which I will share with you here. Letting go of these limited beliefs is the most freeing thing I have done.
How I Manifested My Dream Home
Yes, I did. I set my intentions to the Universe and ta da it just arrived. It’s no mansion by anymeans, but a far cry from where I was. You can see real life pictures here at Pajama Affiliates.
It was a group effort, really it was. My boyfriend, daughter, daughter’s boyfriend and I were all sitting around the kitchen table one night. We live in a very small place right now. It was all my income at the time could really afford. Wow has that changed as well via manifesting and changing my thoughts. So anyway, we were all talking about what we wanted or needed in our new home. It was quite a list.
We wanted an older charming house, I love old houses. We wanted 2 bathrooms and 2 large walk in closets. Hard wood floors. A nice yard to set up a grilling area. A large porch. We needed a place that would allow our pet dog, Macy. Pet friendly alone is hard to find. Close to my mom and best friend. A good sane landlord. My credit has suffered. We needed all of this without a credit check, otherwise we may be turned down.
I was out with the girls last week and mentioned I was looking to move. She told me she had seen a house not far from her. My daughter and I rode by the next day. It looked promising. Older, big porch, nice big beautiful yard. So far so good.
I called the land lord and set up a time. We went to see it. It had everything I mentioned above. I had my references and bank statement in hand. We ended up talking to the landlord and his wife for over 2 hours. The result, he pulled out a lease and we sealed the deal right there. I offered him my references and bank statement and he just pushed them away. He checked nothing, but went on his own instincts I do believe.
When we set these intentions to the Universe, we left out one thing, a dishwasher. That’s okay, I can live without one. It is a lesson though to be very specific when you set your intentions.
I think Tony Robbins said the following quote: The Universe will pay you exactly how much you ask for.
What are you asking for and are you doing what it takes to manifest the life that you dream of?
My next stop? The Islands. I am fine tuning that dream as I write this. The vehicle that has gotten me all of this, well it’s affiliate marketing and I can teach you that here at Pajama Affiliates!